“I celebrate myself and sing myself.” Walt Whitman---Leaves of Grass. Topic: Hunger for Love

 We all want to be loved each one of us . We feel vulnerable and only want to be loved and accepted by others. Some go from relationship to relationship. Other marriages after marriages looking for wanting love their way. Always looking for love and acceptances, only to feel more unloved after the honeymoon is over. The honeymoon is the first time you learn all about someone and the excitement, the feeling and emotion bubbles to the surface.  Excitement that someone really paying attention to them. Gives them hunger for the honeymoon to never stop.  After they get use to each other though...suddenly the honeymoon is over, and they are looking for that instant high of being loved again in a new partner. Repeated again and again.  It's not until they stop the merry go round and ask what do they really want in a relationship? Many would say they want unconditional love. Someone to love them 24/7. Sweetheart, the only one who can give you that love, is through God only. He loves you with unbreakable love.  While a human heart is so fragile, it can break instantly from one word or action.  Instead of rushing into another relationship. STOP! Look at that person you are presently with. Look at their heart.  Focus away from yourself and your wants to that person you are presently with. Don't judge, but instead show compassion and love to that person. Knowing we all want love and acceptance. Take time to really see their beauty inside and out. Except each other faults.  Ask God to help you see this person to see their strength, failures and courage. What have your observe? They are looking for the same things as you are they not? Knowing this, it would make you want to stick it out and just enjoy each other companionship. Finding a friend and a lover in one without having to get back on the ride of ups and down emotions. Just maybe the peace you are looking for is in that one person.  It just takes time to see that person for who they really are.  Just maybe they  are your true soul mate looking right back at you. Look past the appearances and look at their heart instead.